Sexual Health Therapy, Relationship & Intimacy Coaching in Texas & California

You deserve to experience the full richness of your relationship(s) and sexuality, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.

Honest, compassionate support to help you feel understood, reconnected, and more confident in yourself and your relationships.

I provide sex therapy, relationship and intimacy coaching for individuals and couples in Houston and San Francisco, as well as online for clients across Texas and California.

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Portrait of Sharon Windham, Licensed Professional Counselor, smiling warmly and approachable.

Hi there! I’m Sharon. I’m a licensed therapist and intimacy coach helping people develop fulfilling relationships, deepen emotional and sexual connection, and reclaim pleasure.

Rediscover the joy and fulfillment that intimacy can bring, rekindle the feeling of being deeply in love with your partner, and reignite the passion and excitement you felt in the early stages of your relationship.

Our romantic and sexual relationships can be a rich source of deep personal growth...but only when we have the space to explore our needs and desires while learning how to break through sticking points. 

If you’re experiencing challenges with:

  • Communication breakdowns​​

  • Emotional disconnection

  • ​Sexual dissatisfaction or dysfunction

  • ​Low libido, interest, or mismatched sex drive

  • Low sexual self-image

  • Attachment wounds

  • ​​Navigating life transitions (parenthood, menopause, aging)

  • Infertility

  • Recovery from prostate or breast cancer treatment

  • ​Past trauma, infidelity, or betrayal

  • ​Anxiety, shame, or guilt around sex

  • ​Accepting sexual identity, orientation, and preferences

I can help…

Whether you’re navigating desire differences, communication challenges, transitions like aging or menopause, or healing from past wounding, there is hope for growth and transformation

My goal is to help you…

Couple embracing symbolizing connection and closeness after therapy.

  • Feel more confident and clear about what you want

  • Be able to express your needs and desires

  • Develop a healthier relationship with your partner(s)

  • Empower you to connect to your sexuality in ways that feel right for you

  • “There’s more balance in our relationship. We’re spending more time together...no more intense conflicts. There’s a closeness we didn’t have before.”

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "We enjoy each other's company now...our communication is so much better, and we understand each other more. It's what I've always wanted in our relationship."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I used to feel so much pressure during sex...feeling like I was disappointing my wife. I don't feel that pressure anymore and can now enjoy being sexual with her."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "It's easier to talk about uncomfortable things with my partner."

    Relationship Coaching Client

  • "We're clicking...we're on the same wavelength and understand each other better."

    Relationship Coaching Client

  • The exercises you had us do felt empowering. I was relaxed...my husband trusted me....I'm feeling more in control."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I used to feel so much pressure during sex...feeling like I was disappointing my wife. I don't feel that pressure anymore and can now enjoy being sexual with her."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I'm able to express my feelings now. We're falling in love all over again. I wish we would have done couples therapy with you way before."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I clicked so well with you. I feel like I'm being listened to and cared about. You've helped me understand myself better."

    Individual Therapy Client

  • "We really like your style and the direction we're going in. We're really happy with the process."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I feel more connected with my body...I have more self-compassion...I'm comfortable looking at myself."

    Individual Coaching Client

  • "I feel more connected and at ease in my relationship. We joke with each other and play more...it feels really good."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "Sex is no longer a chore, but something I look forward to. For the first time, I can feel pleasure when I have sex."

    In-Home Erotic Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "We're in love again. Our relationship is a source of happiness instead of stress."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I'm loving the different parts of me."

    Individual Coaching Client

Your Sexual Health Matters

Who we are sexually is an integral part of our health. Your sexual, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health are all interconnected and equally important. 

Portrait of Sharon Windham, Licensed Professional Counselor, smiling warmly and approachable.

Serving the Greater Houston Area: River Oaks • West U • Galleria • Memorial • Bellaire

Professional headshot of Erika Sosa, LCSW, LCDC, collaborator specializing in trauma and addiction.

"Sharon is a skillful sex therapist whose expertise helps guide individuals and couples with compassion and kindness to discover and explore relationships and develop a healthy sexual life."

Erika Sosa, LCSW, LCDC

Specialization: Attachment wounds, Trauma, PTSD, Addiction

Collaborative client support

Professional headshot of Christine Block, PhD, providing testimonial about Sharon Windham’s therapy services.

"Sharon helped break through a wall that no one else was able to!" 

Christine Block, PhD, LCSW

Specialization: OCD, Anxiety, Trauma, PTSD

Collaborative client support

Serving the Greater San Francisco Bay Area: Pacific Heights • Nob Hill • Presidio Heights • Noe Valley • Marina

Investing in your relational & sexual health is an investment in your HEALTH.

So…whether you want to work as an individual or with your partner(s), therapy and coaching with me can be your first step in creating more meaningful, intimate, and honest relationships.

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Deepen Connection. Reclaim Pleasure.

Feel Confident In Your Body and Relationships.

Take the first step toward a more connected, fulfilling, and healthy relationship.

Schedule Your 45-minute Consultation To Get Started

A Note on Fit

This work may not be a good fit if you are:

  • Looking for quick fixes, scripts, or surface-level advice

  • Needing crisis-level care, intensive psychiatric treatment, or support for severe personality disorders

  • Seeking court-related services or involvement in legal proceedings

  • Planning to use health insurance benefits (my practice is private pay only)

Shazall Wellness & Sexual Health is a charitable partner with

United For Human Dignity

To learn more, visit

UFHD.org