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connection.

Relationship · Intimacy · Sexual Health

You can care deeply about your relationship and still feel lonely inside it. You can love your partner and miss the way desire used to feel. You can want change without knowing how to begin.

Relationship therapy, sex therapy, trauma support, and intimacy coaching for individuals and partners in Houston, throughout Texas, and nationwide through coaching.

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Find your starting point

Texas therapy

Online statewide

Nationwide coaching

For individuals & partners

Sex-positive care

LGBTQ+, CNM, & kink affirming

Trauma-informed therapy

EMDR & ART

The pattern is.

YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM

Maybe the same argument keeps finding you. Maybe sex has become serious, scheduled, or silent. Maybe something has shifted…in your body, your desire, or your relationship…and what worked before doesn’t work the same way anymore.

I help individuals and partners understand what is happening beneath the surface, speak more honestly, and create new experiences of safety, pleasure, and closeness.

WHERE WOULD YOU LIKE SUPPORT?

Start with what feels most present right now.

Relationship

For conflict, disconnection, communication struggles, betrayal, discernment, or the quiet fear that you are becoming roommates.

Explore relationship therapy

Intimacy Coaching

Practical, forward-moving support for people ready to build emotional and erotic connection.

Available nationwide.

Explore intimacy coaching

Sexual Health & Desire

For low or mismatched desire, sexual pain, erectile changes, performance anxiety, shame, or sex that has become predictable and lost its spark.

Explore sex therapy

Sexuality Through Body & Life Changes

Support for the sexual and relational changes that can accompany menopause, hormonal shifts, aging, illness, medical treatment, and cancer recovery.

Explore sexuality across life

Trauma & Recovery

For experiences that still live in your nervous system, shape your relationships, or make it harder to feel safe and present in your body.

Explore trauma therapy

Inclusive Relationship Support

Affirming support for LGBTQ+ clients, consensual non-monogamy, kink, asexual and aromantic identities, and all partner structures.

Explore affirming care

SIGNATURE APPROACH

The Pleasure Pathway™

Because great sex rarely starts with sex.

The Pleasure Pathway™ expands intimacy beyond intercourse and performance. Its six interconnected pillars invite couples to rediscover the experiences that make desire possible: presence, curiosity, anticipation, play, and attunement.

Touching

Breathing

Kissing

Play

Fantasy

Communication

Discover the model

PSYCHOTHERAPY

Go beneath the pattern.

Therapy offers space to understand the emotional, relational, and personal experiences shaping what you’re going through. It may involve healing from trauma, changing painful patterns, and building a more secure relationship with yourself or a partner.

Available to clients located in Texas.

Is therapy right for me?

COACHING

Build what comes next.

Coaching is practical and future-focused. We clarify what you want, identify what may be getting in the way, and practice the conversations and behaviors that build greater intimacy and connection.

Available nationwide in the United States.

Is coaching right for me?

A DIFFERENT KIND OF CONVERSATION

We begin with curiosity and explore what helps you feel safe, seen, connected, wanted, and alive.

Investing in your relational & sexual health is an investment in your HEALTH.

Whether you come individually or with your partner(s), our work can help you build relationships with greater intimacy, honesty, and connection.

Couple walking arm in arm looking at each other and smiling symbolizing connection, healing, and closeness.
Sharon Windham, therapist and intimacy coach, in her Houston office with one of her cats.

MEET SHARON

Clinical depth. Human warmth. No judgment.

Hi. I’m Sharon, a Licensed Professional Counselor and National Board Certified Counselor specializing in relationships, sexuality, intimacy, and trauma recovery.

My approach is direct, compassionate, and collaborative, grounded in the understanding that who we are is shaped by what we’ve lived. I work with the whole story—mind, body, relationships, culture, identity, history, and hope.

More about me

HOW WE BEGIN

A thoughtful first step…not a commitment.

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Request a consultation

Schedule a 45-minute video consultation to discuss what brings you here and what you hope will change.

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Explore fit

We discuss what you want to change, how I work, and your questions.

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Choose your next step

We identify the service and pace that best fit your needs.

BEGIN WITH A CONVERSATION

Let’s see if working together feels right.

Schedule your 45-minute consultation
Professional headshot of Erika Sosa, LCSW, LCDC, collaborator specializing in trauma and addiction.

"Sharon is a skillful sex therapist whose expertise helps guide individuals and couples with compassion and kindness to discover and explore relationships and develop a healthy sexual life."

Erika Sosa, LCSW, LCDC

Specialization: Attachment wounds, Trauma, PTSD, Addiction

Collaborative client support

Professional headshot of Christine Block, PhD, providing testimonial about Sharon Windham’s therapy services.

"Sharon helped break through a wall that no one else was able to!" 

Christine Block, PhD, LCSW

Specialization: OCD, Anxiety, Trauma, PTSD

Collaborative client support

  • “There’s more balance in our relationship. We’re spending more time together...no more intense conflicts. There’s a closeness we didn’t have before.”

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "We enjoy each other's company now...our communication is so much better, and we understand each other more. It's what I've always wanted in our relationship."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I used to feel so much pressure during sex...feeling like I was disappointing my wife. I don't feel that pressure anymore and can now enjoy being sexual with her."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "It's easier to talk about uncomfortable things with my partner."

    Relationship Coaching Client

  • "We're clicking...we're on the same wavelength and understand each other better."

    Relationship Coaching Client

  • The exercises you had us do felt empowering. I was relaxed...my husband trusted me....I'm feeling more in control."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I used to feel so much pressure during sex...feeling like I was disappointing my wife. I don't feel that pressure anymore and can now enjoy being sexual with her."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I'm able to express my feelings now. We're falling in love all over again. I wish we would have done couples therapy with you way before."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I clicked so well with you. I feel like I'm being listened to and cared about. You've helped me understand myself better."

    Individual Therapy Client

  • "We really like your style and the direction we're going in. We're really happy with the process."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I feel more connected with my body...I have more self-compassion...I'm comfortable looking at myself."

    Individual Coaching Client

  • "I feel more connected and at ease in my relationship. We joke with each other and play more...it feels really good."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "Sex is no longer a chore, but something I look forward to. For the first time, I can feel pleasure when I have sex."

    In-Home Erotic Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "We're in love again. Our relationship is a source of happiness instead of stress."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I'm loving the different parts of me."

    Individual Coaching Client

A Note on Fit

This work may not be a good fit if you are:

  • Needing crisis-level care or support for severe personality disorders

  • Seeking court-related services or involvement in legal proceedings

  • Planning to use health insurance benefits (my practice is private pay only)

Deepen Connection. Reclaim Pleasure.

Feel Confident In Your Relationships.

Schedule Your 45-minute Consultation To Get Started

Shazall Wellness & Sexual Health is a charitable partner with

United For Human Dignity

To learn more, visit

UFHD.org