Come back to connection.

RELATIONSHIP, INTIMACY, & SEXUAL HEALTH

You can care deeply about your relationship and still feel lonely inside it. You can love your partner and miss the way desire used to feel. You can want change without knowing how to begin.

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Online therapy in Texas. Coaching nationwide.

Relationship therapy, sex therapy, and trauma therapy for adults and partners in Houston and throughout Texas. Sex and intimacy coaching available in San Francisco and nationwide.

Where would you like support?

Start with what feels most present right now.

Relationships

Communication, conflict, emotional disconnection, betrayal, or uncertainty
about staying together.

Explore relationship therapy

Intimacy Coaching

Practice communication, affection, flirting, and emotional and erotic connection.

Explore intimacy coaching

Sexual Health & Desire

Desire differences, sexual pain, erectile changes, performance
anxiety, or intimacy that has lost its spark.

Explore sex therapy

Sexuality & Life Changes

Support through menopause, aging, infertility, illness, and
cancer recovery.

Explore sexuality across life

Trauma & Recovery

Experiences that continue to affect safety, trust, relationships, or comfort in your body.

Explore trauma therapy

Sex-positive Care

Affirming support for LGBTQ+ clients, consensual non-monogamy, kink, asexual and aromantic identities, and all partner structures.

Explore affirming care

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Therapy or Coaching?

We can help you choose during your consultation.

Therapy

Understand and change emotional and relational patterns, address clinical concerns, and process trauma.

Available to clients located in Texas.

Is therapy right for me?

Coaching

Build skills and practice new ways of communicating and connecting.

Available nationwide in the United States.

Is coaching right for me?

MEET SHARON

Clinical depth. Human warmth. No judgment.

Sharon Windham with shoulder-length curly brown hair, wearing a maroon shirt, gold hoop earrings, and layered jewelry, smiling slightly at the camera indoors with a blurred background.
Sharon Windham with shoulder-length curly brown hair, wearing a maroon shirt, gold hoop earrings, and layered jewelry, smiling slightly at the camera indoors with a blurred background.

Hi. I’m Sharon, a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in relationships, sexuality, intimacy, and trauma recovery.

My approach is direct, compassionate, and collaborative. We make room for your experiences, culture, identity, body, and relationships, and talk openly about what you want to change.

More about me

SIGNATURE APPROACH

The Pleasure Pathway™

Because great sex rarely starts with sex.

The Pleasure Pathway™ expands intimacy beyond intercourse and performance. Its six interconnected pathways invite couples to rediscover the experiences that make desire possible: presence, curiosity, anticipation, play, and attunement.

Touching

Breathing

Kissing

Play

Fantasy

Communication

Explore The Pleasure Pathway™

Trusted by colleagues who know my work.

Professional headshot of Erika Sosa, LCSW, LCDC, collaborator specializing in trauma and addiction.

"Sharon is a skillful sex therapist whose expertise helps guide individuals and couples with compassion and kindness to discover and explore relationships and develop a healthy sexual life."

Erika Sosa, LCSW, LCDC

Professional headshot of Christine Block, PhD, providing testimonial about Sharon Windham’s therapy services.

"Sharon helped break through a wall that no one else was able to!" 

Christine Block, PhD, LCSW

What clients say

  • “There’s more balance in our relationship. We’re spending more time together...no more intense conflicts. There’s a closeness we didn’t have before.”

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "We enjoy each other's company now...our communication is so much better, and we understand each other more. It's what I've always wanted in our relationship."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I used to feel so much pressure during sex...feeling like I was disappointing my wife. I don't feel that pressure anymore and can now enjoy being sexual with her."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "It's easier to talk about uncomfortable things with my partner."

    Relationship Coaching Client

  • "We're clicking...we're on the same wavelength and understand each other better."

    Relationship Coaching Client

  • The exercises you had us do felt empowering. I was relaxed...my husband trusted me....I'm feeling more in control."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I'm able to express my feelings now. We're falling in love all over again. I wish we would have done couples therapy with you way before."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I clicked so well with you. I feel like I'm being listened to and cared about. You've helped me understand myself better."

    Individual Therapy Client

  • "We really like your style and the direction we're going in. We're really happy with the process."

    Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "I feel more connected with my body...I have more self-compassion...I'm comfortable looking at myself."

    Individual Coaching Client

  • "I feel more connected and at ease in my relationship. We joke with each other and play more...it feels really good."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "Sex is no longer a chore, but something I look forward to. For the first time, I can feel pleasure when I have sex."

    In-Home Erotic Intimacy Coaching Client

  • "We're in love again. Our relationship is a source of happiness instead of stress."

    Relationship Therapy Client

  • "I'm loving the different parts of me."

    Individual Coaching Client

  • Sharon has a unique background and point of view that helped me see the world and myself differently...in the best way. She really cares and is very good at what she does.

    Relationship therapy client

  • Working with Sharon has given me a place where I can be completely honest about what I am feeling and learn how to open, sort through, and put down the things I’ve been carrying, rather than simply carrying them around with me.

    Individual therapy client

  • Sharon creates a safe therapeutic environment. I have had multiple therapists before working with Sharon and feel like I never made the progress I have now from working with previous therapists.

    Individual therapy client

  • The best thing is that I learned about what I need, why I respond to the world the way I do and how to accept myself. The better understanding has helped me feel more in control of my life and more content in my relationships.

    Relationship therapy client

How we begin

A thoughtful first step…not a commitment.

①

Request a consultation

Complete a brief request form. I’ll email you within three business days with availability and payment information.

②

Meet by video

Your 45-minute consultation gives us time to discuss your concerns,
questions, and whether working together feels like the right fit.

③

Choose your next step

We’ll review the appropriate service, session options, and fees
before beginning ongoing work.

Before you request a consultation

  • This practice is private pay; insurance is not accepted and superbills are not provided.

  • This practice does not provide crisis care, court evaluations, or legal documentation.

  • 45-minute consultation: Individual $175 · Partners $250 · In-home coaching $350.

BEGIN WITH A CONVERSATION

Let’s see if working together feels right.

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